The Mind-Body Reason the Pandemic is Giving You SO Many Headaches

Have you had more headaches since this pandemic started? Have you wondered if there's a connection?

I can tell you that there definitely is! The specific type of headache pain you are experiencing can tell you a lot about what your body is trying to tell you in how you feel about the pandemic and any other stressors in your life.

Are you getting more headaches? Comment below - I'd love to hear from you!

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Your body is telling you what is off. Let me help you translate it.

I'll never forget the moment a doctor told me, "Well, now you've got chronic fatigue. It's incurable; you'll have to live with it."

It wasn't entirely surprising to me; I'd been working myself over 100 hour weeks even after being diagnosed with mono and told to take 6 weeks off. Instead, I'd taken only a half day off and just kept going.

And now, I'd finally hit a wall. I'd be able to do something for an hour, then I'd have to lay down for the rest of the day.

It. was. AWFUL.

And I knew - I KNEW - that there was a connection between running myself ragged trying to live up to everyone's expectations and hold everyone together, and my diagnosis.

I started to research everything - psychology, philosophy, religious texts, Eastern medicine, anatomy and physiology, energetic medicine, and even quantum physics.

My husband called me the "nutty professor," because he would find me pouring over quantum physics books at 3AM.

I knew that if I could find a connection between all of these disparate studies, I could find something that could not only help me heal, but help others, too.

One morning, I had a huge "Aha!" moment, and I called up my husband at work and began babbling about science and vibration and frequency and the unconscious mind.

The rest is history. I healed myself with my discovery. I started helping my friends and family heal using the same methodology, and I fine-tuned it and turned it into The Flow Method, and then, when I realized that I could translate people's pain and disease and help them heal, I created the Body Language course.

I've helped people around the globe understand the messages their body is sending and to heal. Once you learn it, you can use it for the rest of your life, anytime you feel a pain or disease starting.

Let me show you what your body is telling you.

🗝️Unlock the Body Language Course now.

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Even strong people need support sometimes.

I remember a time when I was going through so much that I truly thought I would break. We had gone through our 4th or 5th failed adoption, and we had to put our beloved dog of 16 years to sleep due to an extremely fast-growing cancer that gave us just days to figure out what to do (and there was no treatment possible).

I am a person who tries to always see the bright side of things. I always look for the lesson. I always believe that even bad things are leading me to something better.

But, in that moment, I hit rock bottom. My faith shattered. My heart was broken in a way I felt was permanent. I had picked myself up and brushed myself off so many times, and I truly felt in that moment that I could not do it again. The weight of the sorrow of all of that loss was overwhelming.

I called people in my life who I believed would be supportive (and who I endlessly support), and, for perhaps the first time in my life, I said, "I am broken. I truly need help."

I'm not sure I've ever said those words before, and it was difficult to even speak them.

Their response? "You are a strong person; you'll make it through."

Not, "What can I do to help?" Not, "How can I take some of this burden?" Not, "I'm hopping on a plane and flying down there to take you in my arms and hold you up for a while..." (something I had done repeatedly for them).

And then, I didn't hear from any of them for 14 days.

And that is when I realized that, when a group unit - be it a family or friends - is used to one person being "the strong one," they cannot handle that person faltering. As a result, the strong person is never allowed to break or to need help.

And it is EXHAUSTING. So, please - check on your "strong" friends. Ask them if they need anything, and listen. Then help. Let them know that they are loved, supported, and appreciated.

If you are strong person who is dealing with pain or disease, and you’d like support and love to get through it, check out my course, Body Language: Deciphering Your Body’s Clues so You Can Heal. In there, you will get personal support from me with weekly calls, as well as understand and heal the core reasons for your pain or illness, empowering your personal strength and your best life.

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A Mind-Body Look at Shoulder and Neck Pain - Rosario's Story

“What does it mean when you have pain just like she described but on the other side of the body?” 

The question comes from a beautiful, silver-haired Latino woman who I will call Rosario. As she finishes asking the question she swallows hard, as if it took a great deal of effort to allow herself to ask it.

I’m in the midst of teaching my Body Language: Deciphering Your Body’s Clues so You Can Heal seminar at the High Tide Women’s Weekend on Amelia Island, Florida. There is a great group of women in there, and I have been doing some on-the-spot mind-body diagnosis. Rosario is sitting a few rows back, but she sticks out to me; I noticed that she wants to speak, but keeps crossing her arms over her belly and covering her throat with her hand. Having done this work for a while, I know that these body postures mean that she is afraid of voicing whatever the issue is - and particularly, that she is afraid of being judged. As the woman before had just asked about similar pain, I am glad that someone else’s issue has helped her feel comfortable enough to be able to ask for help for herself.

“So, you have aching pain that radiates from the right side of your neck down into your shoulder, going all the way to the socket?” I ask, smiling to help her feel at ease.

“Yes, exactly.” Rosario agrees and touches her throat again.

“What does the pain feel like?” I ask, gently digging deeper so I can get to the key issue and help her heal.

“It’s an ache...” She says and then pauses, as if something else needs to be said.

“An ache...” I repeated slowly, giving her time to put voice to her thoughts.

Words begin to rush out of her. “And I had surgery on my neck, and ever since then my arm feels like it is pins and needles and it has tremors. My doctor looked at it and said it has nothing to do with the surgery. Oh - and when it shakes, my finger sticks out, too!” She holds her hand out, points her pointer finger, and demonstrates.

People in the audience start to giggle a bit - not because of Rosario’s distress, but because she is literally wagging a finger at everyone, much like we have all done something wrong and are being scolded.

I laugh and look around at the smiling group. “You know, sometimes these things are really literal. Anyone want to tell me what might be going on here?”

Answers come from around the room: “She wants to tell someone something!” “She needs to tell someone off!” ”She’s got to give someone a piece of her mind!”

Rosario starts to laugh. She looks more relaxed than I have seen her up to this point.

“Yeah, you don’t really need me to interpret that one.” I laugh and redirect my focus back to Rosario. “Okay, well, you are feeling emotional fear over something in your life relating to a man. I feel like you have solutions that you are aware of that you cannot or are not speaking; that is where all the pain in the neck is coming from. This is a great burden for you, which is why your shoulder is in pain as well. And aching, well, that means that it is heart-breaking for you. Now, I don’t want to dig too deep in front of everyone here - but does that make sense for you?” Tears  come to Rosario’s eyes and she nods. 

I smile at her and move on to conduct up a few more on-the-spot diagnosis and give some more training on how the participants could start to diagnose themselves. The moment that we finished, Rosario made a bee-line for me. “Would you have a moment to talk?” She asks quietly. 

“Absolutely.” I smile at her and walk outside, where Rosario begins to tell me the story behind her pain. As a child in Cuba, she had been part of a wealthy family until the Cuban revolution, when her father was put in prison and her mother had to run for her life. Out of love for her, her parents had put her on a boat to America, where she was suddenly a very poor child with no family. Understandably, this made her feel very unsafe.

As an adult, she met and married her husband who is 15 years older than her. She adores him - he is her stability - but she has noticed over the last couple of years that he is starting to look older and older, and she is worried about losing him - losing her soulmate and her stability. She has become more and more concerned about him because he doesn’t do anything to take care of himself. 

“I am so afraid of losing him.” Rosario finishes with tears streaming down her cheeks.

“Have you talked to him about your concerns?” I ask gently. My heart aches for her, because, being truly in love with my husband, I can understand her fear of losing him all too well.

“No, I haven’t - I have never been able to communicate well, and he doesn’t like to talk about emotional things.” She wipes a tear from her cheek.

Now knowing for certain that this is where her pain is coming from, she and I talk about how important it is for her to tell her husband how afraid she is about losing him, and how much she needs him to start taking care of himself so that she can have him around for as long as possible. I suggest she write a letter to him explaining it all, and then give that letter to him at a time where he would be able to be relaxed, read it, and process it. 

Rosario looks at me and smiled. “You know, I think that is just what I need to do! This is the first time I haven’t been in pain in weeks!” 

We hug and I ask her to keep me apprised of how it works out. She walks away smiling.

Rosario’s example is a perfect story of how much pain emotional and mental issues can cause us - and how much holding in our pain results in disease and physical issues. As I always say, if you don’t confront an issue, your body will. 

So, do you have shoulder pain? Ask yourself what is emotionally burdening you now. 

Is there neck pain involved as well? Ask yourself what you need to be saying. The answer might be surprising to you!

You know, this is why I love my work - I get to make a difference in people’s lives and help them to take back control over their minds and bodies every single day.