A friend's aunt just committed suicide a few days ago. Her name was Joanne, and she not only a fan of my work, but I was giving her some free help with marketing for a book she was writing on vets and PTSD. 

am beyond in shock; I've gone through all our messages and I don't see any warning signs; in fact, all I see are messages about how excited she was about her work and her book. She also never reached out for help, which I would have gladly given.