


Toxic Spirituality: Why "Forgive and Forget" Can be the Worst Kind of Gaslighting
Have you been told that you should just “be nicer” to someone who was abusive to you? Or that you are a bad person if you don’t want to accept someone back into your life after they’ve made decisions that were hurtful to you?
I’m over it. You should have healthy boundaries. People should be held accountable for the harm they have done. You are a good person if you can’t forgive someone.

Ask Tara: How Do You Stay so Positive? And Do I Have to Always Be Positive?
In this week’s video, I answer a great question from Anna in Vermont: “Tara, how do you always stay so positive?”
My answer might surprise you!